Charly Boy, the Nigerian singer, reveals his traumatic experiences of childhood sexual abuse, sharing how he was raped by his nanny at age 10 and subsequently engaged in sexual activities by age 12. His story highlights the complexities of early trauma and its lasting effects.
Nigerian artist Charly Boy, known for his distinctive style and activism, recently revealed his traumatic experiences with childhood sexual abuse in an interview on the Duke Rants podcast.
The 70-year-old singer, whose real name is Charles Chukwuemeka Oputa, shared that he was raped by his nanny at the tender age of 10. Due to his young age and innocence, he didn't fully comprehend the nature of the abuse, expressing that he felt a confusing mix of pleasure rather than trauma at the time. Charly Boy described how this incident led to an early and tumultuous introduction to sexuality.
By the age of 12, he was sexually active, had contracted gonorrhea, and began visiting brothels. He recounted the confusion and lack of guidance he faced as a child, further influenced by relatives who introduced him to sexual experiences.
Reflecting on his upbringing, Charly Boy noted a significant event when he was called by his father regarding a teenage pregnancy linked to his acquaintances, a moment that highlighted the consequences of his early sexual encounters. This candid sharing of his past sheds light on the lasting impact of childhood trauma, and Charly Boy's openness about these experiences may resonate with those who have faced similar challenges, emphasizing the importance of addressing and discussing such sensitive topics.