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Fashion designer Veekee James faces backlash for urging women not to deny their husbands sex, even when exhausted. Her comments at a bridal shower have triggered heated online conversations about consent and marital expectations.

  • Veekee James advised women to comply with their husbands’ sexual needs, even when too tired.
  • Her comments surfaced during a bridal shower speech to her sister-in-law.
  • Critics say the advice ignores the importance of mutual consent in marriages.

Many women online expressed discomfort, calling the advice tone-deaf and reflective of societal pressure on women to perform sexually in marriage regardless of emotional or physical readiness. Others argued Veekee was speaking from personal experience, not prescribing norms.

As discussions on sexual autonomy in marriages grow louder, how can Nigerian society better educate couples on balancing intimacy with mutual respect and consent?

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